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Friday, April 29, 2011

Royal Wedding First Day Cover

While there is a lot of excitement and buzz about the royal wedding (William & Catherine of England), my interest is not in watching the wedding event.  Instead it is something to do with my hobby - stamp collection!
When NZ post sent an email notifying me of the royal wedding stamp issue, I was too busy to do anything about it.  Then just a few days ago, I finally got around to ordering it.  It is about NZ$5 for the first day cover.
Just after ordering it and checking the website again the next day, all the issues are sold out!  Wow, it made me so glad that I managed to get a copy.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Baby Xin starts to walk

At 15 months, Baby Xin finally started to walk independently. Before this she has always held on to the hands of someone else or push a chair or even the stroller around in order to walk.
If you let go of her hand, then she will crouch down and crawl to continue moving ahead.

So today she officially took baby steps.  The same timing record applied to her elder brother and sister.
And when she finally can walk, she doesn't.  She runs!

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Of Courage, Grace and Dignity

Photo taken from Mercy Malaysia banner

When an unfortunate disaster happens, all of us will be shocked, sad and immediately think of offering to help.   When the Japan tsunami struck, I pledged to help.  My husband gave a donation immediately through Tzu Chi Merit Society.  I was hanging about waiting for some local organization that will collect my donation, and then dilly-dallied on it.  Until one day, I receive an email notification from this group by Marco Robinson, and in there, they described that they are running a corporate charity event with proceeds going to the Japan earthquake fund. The email described exactly what I was experiencing, which was going about my daily life as usual, and forgetting about helping others.
Although I did not take part in that event, I immediately went to my most admired local disaster relief charity organization, Mercy Malaysia. And sure enough, they had set up a Japan Earthquake Relief Fund.  Without further delay, I made my small contribution.

Here is another story that I received via email that I would like to share.  It made me wonder, if a disaster were to happen in Malaysia, what type of response would our people choose - like most other nations (chaotic, violent, each man for himself) or like the Japanese (courageous, dignified, sacrifice oneself for the greater good)?


Japanese boy teaches lesson in sacrifice
Created: 2011-3-24

EDITOR'S note: 

THIS letter, written by Vietnamese immigrant Ha Minh Thanh working in Fukushima as a policeman to a friend in Vietnam, was posted on New America Media on March 19. It is a testimonial to the strength of the Japanese spirit, and an interesting slice of life near the epicenter of Japan's crisis at the Fukushima nuclear power plant. It was translated by NAM editor Andrew Lam, author of "East Eats West: Writing in Two Hemispheres." Shanghai Daily condensed it.

Brother,

How are you and your family? These last few days, everything was in chaos. When I close my eyes, I see dead bodies. When I open my eyes, I also see dead bodies. 

Each one of us must work 20 hours a day, yet I wish there were 48 hours in the day, so that we could continue helping and rescuing folks.

We are without water and electricity, and food rations are near zero. We barely manage to move refugees before there are new orders to move them elsewhere.

I am currently in Fukushima, about 25 kilometers away from the nuclear power plant. I have so much to tell you that if I could write it all down, it would surely turn into a novel about human relationships and behaviors during times of crisis.

People here remain calm - their sense of dignity and proper behavior are very good - so things aren't as bad as they could be. But given another week, I can't guarantee that things won't get to a point where we can no longer provide proper protection and order. 

They are humans after all, and when hunger and thirst override dignity, well, they will do whatever they have to do. The government is trying to provide supplies by air, bringing in food and medicine, but it's like dropping a little salt into the ocean.

Brother, there was a really moving incident. It involves a little Japanese boy who taught an adult like me a lesson on how to behave like a human being.

Last night, I was sent to a little grammar school to help a charity organization distribute food to the refugees. It was a long line that snaked this way and that and I saw a little boy around 9 years old. He was wearing a T-shirt and a pair of shorts.

It was getting very cold and the boy was at the very end of the line. I was worried that by the time his turn came there wouldn't be any food left. So I spoke to him. He said he was at school when the earthquake happened. His father worked nearby and was driving to the school. The boy was on the third floor balcony when he saw the tsunami sweep his father's car away. 

I asked him about his mother. He said his house is right by the beach and that his mother and little sister probably didn't make it. He turned his head and wiped his tears when I asked about his relatives.

The boy was shivering so I took off my police jacket and put it on him. That's when my bag of food ration fell out. I picked it up and gave it to him. "When it comes to your turn, they might run out of food. So here's my portion. I already ate. Why don't you eat it?"

The boy took my food and bowed. I thought he would eat it right away, but he didn't. He took the bag of food, went up to where the line ended and put it where all the food was waiting to be distributed. 

I was shocked. I asked him why he didn't eat it and instead added it to the food pile. He answered: "Because I see a lot more people hungrier than I am. If I put it there, then they will distribute the food equally."

When I heard that I turned away so that people wouldn't see me cry. 

A society that can produce a 9-year-old who understands the concept of sacrifice for the greater good must be a great society, a great people. 

Well, a few lines to send you and your family my warm wishes. The hours of my shift have begun again.

Ha Minh Thanh

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Baby Xin at 14 months

Last Saturday J went back to his hometown with his mom and dad for the annual Cheng Beng festival.
So, left alone with 3 kids, what did I do?  I ran home to my Mom of course!
I took the 3 kids to spend the night and had a great time with Mom.  The baby was kept happy exploring new things and places.  The kids get to play on her computer.


Here's a picture of her in the morning, biting on to her sippy cup and crawling on all fours.  Mom was laughing at the tiny "puppy" crawling about.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Earth Hour 26 Mar 2011

On Saturday, the kids were very excited about Earth Hour.  Wei understood it as saving energy and not using anything powered electronically. 

So he switched off all the lights, and left only 2 small lamps on (for Grandpa to see where he was going, we wouldn't want Grandpa to trip in the dark).  Wei even wanted to switch off all the fans, eventually we left the fan running in the living room, where Grandpa and Grandma sat in the dark. Poor old dears do not understand why we had to turn off everything and they were not allowed to watch tv for an hour.

Wei, Yuan, Baby Xin, J and I sat at the balcony, because we wanted to enjoy the natural breeze.  It did not seem as if many people turned down the lights.  Wei had brilliant ideas of what to do in the dark -  we were paying "Snap" card game which we could barely make out the characters from the street lights outside.
These photos were taken with J's mobile phone, which had a flash function.


 Baby Xin also wanted to take part in the Snap games. All in all, it was an enjoyable hour until Baby Xin got sleepy and had to be put to bed.

Monday, March 21, 2011

When We Were Young, Everything Was Possible

Today I asked Wei if it is ok if I stopped working and stayed at home.
Below is the conversation that transpired:

Wei: "Why do you want to stop working, Mom?"
Me: "Because I don't feel good at work, I often get scolded."
Wei: "What are you going to do if you stopped?"
Me: "I will take a break, then maybe I will consider working again"
Wei: "Would you work at your company again?"
Me (puzzled): "Why do you want me to work at this company?"
Wei: "Because it is a good company, Mom."
Me (even more puzzled): "Why?"
Wei: "Because we got free flu injections."
Me: "Ah...I see. But what about the scolding?"
Wei: "It's ok, Mom, I often get scolded in school too. Never mind -la, just continue."

It made my week, the way Wei sees it.

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Baby Xin - 2010 chronicle through pictures

As I look back at our photo collection, I realize how time flies and how my baby has grown. Thanks to mobile phones, we easily take pictures at any moment, and thereby capturing the many faces and many changes in this wonderful, amazing first year.
3 days old
Jan 21, 11 days old
Jan 25, 2 weeks old
Jan 27, 2010
Jan 27, 2010
March 11, 2010
Apr 11, 2010

May 9, 2010
June 27, 2010
Aug 9, 2010
Sept 5, 2010
Sept 16, 2010
Sept 16, 2010

Oct 17, 2010
Nov 14, 2010


Xmas 2010